Friday, August 22, 2025

5 Keys To Being Unstoppable

 5 Keys to Being Unstoppable


As understood by Gina, learned from Sage Robbins, Tony Robbin’s wife.


Goal:

Less stress more fulfillment


Key 1


Choose to tidy up

Tidying Up

Be aware of no junk in

We are aware of what we put into our bodies.

Powerful, what are we feeding and put into our minds.


Digesting in our minds.

Excess social media, news, television.


No social media on our phone.

Turn off all news prompts and notifications, no interruptions.


What are we putting into our minds before we go asleep.


Wake up in the morning, do not look at the phone first.

Gratefulness.


Key 2

Cultivate Harmony

Choose Harmony

No  junk out

Powerful words

If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all.


Stop complaining, habitual.

Stop the hatefulness. Blessings will come by changing vernacular. Where is the gift in this? What is blessed?


Stop the gossip and trouble talk. Too many opinions. 


Share a broader perspective. Hear gossiping, don’t participate. Add a fuller perspective, something nicer. We can all go blind, miss.


Sin = miss. Compassion recognized we are all human.



Key 3

Choice to Take 100% responsibility.


What can we actually shift? 


Shift from the external blame, “he always does this.” As our finger points outward, point it back to ourselves.



Tidying up, being the mirror, choosing to go first is leadership, ownership. What does this sound like, feel like? 


Can we reset, can we begin again? Blaming separates us. We give the power away. 


Sage’s thought: 

I have never changed a single person on this planet, only we can change ourselves.


Key 4

Choose Your Tribe

Who we spend time with is who we become.


How we want to be. Powerful catalyst to have support of like minded individuals around us.

Resonance of common values.

Celebratory.


Key 5

Choose to be a blessing


Simple gesture, kindness, compliment.


Don’t dismiss our identities, they are these gifts of love and kindness.


Wednesday, July 2, 2025

Tiny Blessings by Gina Meyers

 


There is a book called, "Don't Sweat The Small Stuff". The book goes on to say that it is, "all small stuff."

Louise Hay, also stated many times that it is far better to have a positive thought than a negative thought. So a few months ago, by my espresso machine, I decided to write down my, "Tiny Blessings" for the day.


It's like a savings account, the more tiny blessings, the more I felt blessed.



Tiny Blessing 

Thank God for the checkout boy who said, "Look at you all in red, with your red purse, you are rocking it."


Tiny Blessing

Thank God for the lady in back of me at Savemart today who gave me a bag and .4 cents because I needed it.


Tiny Blessing

Thank God for the little boy who said "hello" to me first on my walk around my boyfriend's neighborhood 


Tiny Blessing

Thank God for the lady at CVS last week who when I was told by the cashier an even # on the cash register, she said, "hey, God did that!" "God is always doing those special things, don't forget it."


Tiny Blessing


Thank God I got to play a fun game of Scrabble on Sunday!



Friday, June 27, 2025

Tips to Declutter Your Life by Gina Meyers

 Tips to Declutter your Life, by Gina Meyers


Aren’t we all a product of our environments? I believe so, if I didn’t I wouldn’t have written and published my first book, second book, third book, etc. If I didn’t truly believe so, I wouldn’t have gotten on a stage in a foreign land to accept an award for a fundraising cookbook concept that I called, Hope for Haiti. I wouldn’t have convinced my relatives during the Gulf War to purchase Patriotic Buttons emblazoned with, “I Support The Troops”. In high school, I wouldn’t have convinced my fellow students to help me “tye dye diapers” for our Senior Project, which was Designer Drypers. Within weeks of my “idea”, one of my journalisim friends Brendan showed me the article from the San Jose Mercury Newspaper about FAO Swartz aquiring a Designer Diaper business or the fact that the name DRYPERS wasn’t invented until after I said it.


Before that incident, at the age of sixteen, I had a brainstorm, why not make college campus videos for parents and students who couldn’t travel too far from home. Some butthead at the SBA of San Francisco took one look at me, pointed to his neck, (of which he had a chain) and said, “see my idea it makes sense”, not yours. No funding and within months, I cut out a magazine article which did my idea.


The hit Netflix series “Tidying Up with Marie Kondo” is inspiring people to keep possessions that "spark joy," and get rid of the rest.

So, maybe it's no surprise that the show may also be sparking an increase in thrift store donations around the country.

Lately, it seems like everyone has been talking about the new series from Kondo, the Japanese organizing expert who first came on the scene with her 2014 best-selling book, “The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up.”

The show follows Kondo as she helps people organize and clean out their homes using her unique “KonMari” method. Her approach to getting rid of possessions is elegant in its simplicity: Hold each item in your hands. If it “sparks joy,” keep it. If not, get rid of it.



The influencer here, of course, is Marie Kondo, a Japanese organizing consultant-turned-author whose book, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up, re-popularized the idea that the first step to achieving inner peace is to give away the useless piles of things you’ve accumulated over the years. (Per the KonMari method, you’re first encouraged to hold the stuff, think about the stuff, and thank the stuff for its service). The guru’s new Netflix show, Tidying Up With Marie Kondo, has drawn people further down the anti-hoarding rabbit hole: Binge all eight episodes and you might find yourself purging your earthly belongings.

Short Story, Meet Cute in the morning, by Gina Meyers

 Meet Cute in the morning


I thought I was waving at an employee named Erik, so I started waving back to the man in the white truck. I pulled out my car and rolled down the window,

“I thought you were waving at me.”

“I have a cold, I’m a little bit out of it”, I say. 

“But I wanted to wave at you, you look gorgeous by the way.”

He was waving at the workers doing the slurry coat.


What is your Joseph Story, by Gina Meyers

 The story of Joseph and the Technicolor Dreamcoat


Some of us have Joseph moments, what type of leader are you?



God can lead us all to something greater, like Joseph.


What is your Joseph story?


Are we humans having a spirit experience or spirits having a human experience?


When God calls, how do you answer?


Do you put him on hold?

Hang up?

Say in a text: “I’ll call you back”

Answer the call?


As a writer, I’ve found it difficult to write fiction, my truths are definetly richer, wilder, and stranger than fiction.


I was reminded that in whatever situation God puts us in, that there is a lesson.


Tuesday, May 6, 2025

7093 North Teilman #102 Fresno, CA. 93711 is an exceptional 2-bedroom (+ loft), 2-bathroom home tucked away in the highly sought-after Northridge Terrace gated community.

 Welcome Home!

NEW LISTING

Townhome/PUD for Sale


7093 N. Teilman Avenue #102

Fresno, CA. 93711



$339,900 sales price



Ideally located off of Fruit & Herndon Avenues in Northwest Fresno


7093 North Teilman #102 Fresno, CA. 93711 is an exceptional 2-bedroom (+ loft), 2-bathroom home tucked away in the highly sought-after Northridge Terrace gated community. 


Designed for both comfort and style, this home features vaulted ceilings that enhance the bright and airy living space, ceiling fans throughout the home, and a skylight that fills the home with natural light. The openness of the layout is complemented by a cozy fireplace in the living room. Upstairs, the primary bedroom with ensuite offers privacy, along with a mezzanine space with built-in storage cupboards that can be used as an office, game room or additional sleeping area. The downstairs bedroom provides convenience and flexibility and has an outlook onto greenery. The kitchen has a built-in microwave, stainless steel refrigerator with built-in water and ice maker, and electric stove along with a breakfast bar. The dedicated laundry room adds everyday convenience with electric hookups for a washer and dryer. The home also enjoys the ease of an attached 2-car garage.


Outside boasts a private patio, an inviting space for relaxing and entertaining, along with access to the shared community pool for those warm summer days. 


Situated in a prime location, off of Fruit and Herndon in Northwest Fresno. This home is just minutes from shopping, dining and entertainment. Easy access to Freeways 99 & 41 offers options for an effortless commute, and there are medical facilities nearby for the whole family. Schools are part of the award-winning Clovis Unified School District.  Don't miss out on this fantastic opportunity and schedule your private showing today!


Northridge Terrace has unique amenities for its residents including a pool as well as a barbecue pit/ grill.




Monday, March 31, 2025

Life Techniques by Gina Meyers

 The following life techniques can help you perform better in school, at work, at a leisure activity,

or in life.

Understand who you are versus what you do.

How, why, and what are you going to do?

It doesn’t matter if you succeed or fail.


Reducing Errors

Techniques to reduce errors.

“Failure to prepare is preparing to fail.”

Understand your equipment, what you have, how to use it.

3 Stages when errors occur

#1 Intention

How to emotionally tag information to remember it better, that what emotions do. Emotional

importance of value makes you perform higher, more optimally.

If you don’t have good intentions, it won't work out. Moral: set pure intentions and you will

reduce errors and improve your performance.

#2 Observe

By physically observing myself, by watching myself perform the tast, it will help to eliminate

human error.

#3 Verification

Make sure what we thought we intended for verification. Outcome should match your intention.

Practice this in order to make it normal for you and a reduction in errors can help.

The Human Brain

Human brain sees in images, then language.

If you can’t see it, you can’t do it.

Dream of a new possibility.


How to learn to practice in your mind can help you to motivate, earning the belief that you can

do it can create success.

What motivates you?

Brain can only think of one thing at a time.

The conscious mind can only process one thing at a time.

Most people are waiting for something.

You cannot see a new truth, you must be in the creation mode.


Our subconscious mind can do a lot in the background.

We create on lack. We see the vacation, you see that car, your brain thinks and sees what you

want. The plain of duality makes us the ability to earn our future. Whatever you want, you can

ensure this through visualization.

When you get into the habit of stop believing in themselves, that is the worst.


How do you decide what to let through to your conscious mind?

Rule of performance

Pay attention and look for what is the most important thing at any given time.

ADHD example of the brain and how it is superfast and hard to stay on task.

Super smart, they get bored easily and can’t control the flashlight, aka the information.

Focus on one thing at a time.

Focus


External


Top of the Focus is Internal

Narrow on the left broad on the right


Gauge built into our conscious. Have to build and gauge and know how much focus. If focus is

low, your performance is going to suffer.

Focus and energy, and happiness is the goal.


Focus and energy peak graph

When was at my best?

How awake was I?

Sometimes you can be overly excited and you need to calm yourself down.


Bubble

Zone

Flow

Days of struggling?

Average performance.

How do you move beyond average performance to peak performance.


You must move from and push from average to peak and you need to optimize.

Figure out your baseline and measure for improvement. You will need to create your own tools

to understanding.


Aviate

Navigate

Communicate


Discussion on stress and techniques on reducing stress and improving strength.


Focus on the peripheral. Practice with playing cards things that are out of your line of sight to

improve eye function to see peripherally.

Paths towards the best options to succeed.

Performance x X factor (outside forces) = results


In trying to get the plane to land tell yourself.

Don’t let it land.


Prepare for the unexpected.


The more you prepare for the x factor, the better chance of success.

Example of practicing car crashes with toy cars. Example of seeing what is front of you when

you are going to land.

Better balance example and how this will improve brain and cognitive abilities.

Tai Chi can help you as well.

A rocking chair can also help you with balance.

Society teaches children to focus on the wrong things towards personal success.

How can you gain confidence when overloaded?


Stress and confidence are inversely proportional.


If Stress is:


Then Confidence is:


How can you gain confidence when you are overloaded?

Since they are inversely proportional, you must implement techniques to keep stress low.

Self-talk and visualizing can help you to regain focus.

3 R’s

#1 Recognize

Gauge how stressed you are.

Recognize, organize, look at your options, for instance there is a such thing as a diminishing

triangle. Workload might be heavier, could increase stress.

BEFORE YOU MAKE A DECISION RELAX

Breathing techniques. Breath from the belly. From the diaphragm.

Drink or sip water to help you relax.

Breath Work:

Technique breathe with the belly, will help to dump that extra adrenaline, the fight or flight.

Hold your heart with your dominant hand and with your other hand, touch your belly.


By breathing this way, slowly in and out, you are breathing through the belly and your

adernerline will go down.

The parasympathetic hormone also will be calmed down.


#2 Refocus

Chose words you like.

Gina, Be calm

Gina, be smooth

Gina, focus on the here and now)

By refocusing you regain composure.


If you want to make a good decision.

Observe

Orient

Decide

Act

Evaluate


#3 Reflect

-Recognize

Reset

Reflect

Focus and reingage to what matters.

Perfection is an illusion but excellence is choice.

Wednesday, March 26, 2025

Jeannie Out of The Bottle

 


If you want to read something poignant, about a hard working woman, then read Barbara Eden's, Jeannie, Out of The Bottle.


I am still thinking about everything she's been through and yet she continues to persevere and to see her perspective of an American Movie Actress/ TV Actress, Singer, Dancer, and Entertainer.


A consulate professional. 




Thursday, February 13, 2025

Lessons Learned from Coach Wally

 


I've been a California Licensed Realtor for almost two years. In that two years, if you can imagine I have witnessed a lot of changes and a lot of volatility. I have remained steadfast to myself and my clients and in the process I have learned a great deal from the awesome workshops I have attended. Perhaps one of my greatest tools is in listening to what others want or have done and translating what I've learned into the written word.


With a plethora of pieces of paper laying around the office, I'm compiling some of what I have learned. 


Coach Wally said it's important to find:


1) Your Leads

2) Follow-up

3) Create a system for doing that.


When do you see the moving van dropping off your furniture? Welcome to my new home, do you want to have a house party?

In other words, when you are qualifying your leads, you need to help them visualize the home and them living in it if that is their intention. 


To have a client organize their day, you ask them to pick a day on the calendar.


Is the move this year, next year, winter, spring, summer, autumn, June, July, August.